March 2024

Stay at Home Wife (NO KIDS) – Weekly Housekeeping

Being a stay-at-home wife is both challenging and fulfilling. One of the most important things to remember is to embrace the unique challenges and joys that come with this lifestyle. A weekly schedule is a MUST HAVE in my book.

do you really need a schedule ?

A homemaker with or without kids is a lot of work, it all goes down on what you choose to do on your own and what you choose to out source.

every homemaker daily schedule will look different, and will change with the seasons of the year and the seasons of life.

I believe that having a goal and a plan to accomplish will help you become the homemaker you wish to be, scroll down to learn how to do it.

a sense of routine

The concept of weekly schedule embodies a sense of routine – a sequence of actions regularly followed. if you have not yet read my post on my daily schedule you should check it out here. I go in depth of the pros and cons and point out helpful tips to overcome common difficulties.

this article is packed with helpful advice for all the amazing stay-at-home wives out there. We know this is a big decision, and taking it seriously is key.

The definition of a stay-at-home wife

Is a definition you and your husband choose togther. And it might look different for each and one of us.

This article is dedicated to stay-at-home wives without kids. as our daily schedule look quite different than wives with kids.

building a plan and a schedule

begin building you weekly schedule by writing down you goals for each of these categories under the umberlla term homekeeping:

Food and Nourishments
Cleaning and Organizing
Wellness of both you and you husband
Balancing Finances

I go in depth on each category down below

Food and Nourishment

anything you can think of related to nourishing our physical body.

some ideas:
1. growing your own food

2. preserving food

3. meal planning

4. baking and cooking homemade handmade food

5. Finding solutions to food sensitivities

6. hosting dinners and holidays

7. deciding if vitamins are needed

8. deciding on what type of diet you and your husband will consume

9. getting to know your local botcher and get important advice

10. finding the local food market and reaching out to local farmer

11. educating yourself with culinary courses

12. trying out new foods to teach family about different cultures and grow their taste buds

Cleaning and Organizing

one of the most important topics as it is not only the homemakers job to do but a practice every independent person should know.

1.keeping house clean to your liking

2. keeping the furniture in their best shape as possible, cleaning and fixing whats needed to be fixed.

3. cleaning the tiding the kitchen, keeping it as useful as possible

4. organizing and sorting the home “stuff” so you know everything you have and own

5. Being responsible of the physical house aspect, everything from mold, to renovating the kitchen, to finding a replacement tile for the one that broke

6. garden- seasonal flower, vegetable plants and garden furniture and hosting outside

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Wellness

of both you and you husband… making sure you know how to improve your wellbeing, it’s important to note that while a homekeeper does take part in the wellness of the family. she is not responsible for it. meaning the husband is responsible for his own and his wife’s as much as she is.

1. sleep enough

2. balanced diet

3.Being exposed to enough sunlight and wearing sunscreen

4. Knowing how to deal with the different seasons of life stress

5.Exercising daily

6.Consuming moderate amount of alcohol if any

7.being social

8.practicing new and old hobbies

Balancing Finances

Managing the home’s finance means to let go of your limiting beliefs about money and take ownership of your money.

1.Set a timeline for your money goals.
2.work towards Building an emergency fund.
3.Create a diverse portfolio of investments.
4.learn more about the 50-30-20 rule
5.create a budget: weekly and monthly
6. Save first, spend later
7.Set financial goals:
8.Avoid debt
9.Track your spending.
10.Pay bills on time to avoid late fees.

Now after you have a rough idea of what you wish to accomplish throughout the week as a stay at home wife, you need to start filling your weekly schedule.

free printables

I made two free schedule printable, one beginning in monday and the other on sunday (for all my Jewish girlies).

While filling out your daily goals don’t forget :

add a section for “free time” for yourself at least once a dat, this can include anything from going out to coffee to watching your favorite TV show.

add some “self improvement” hours throughout the week. this section is very important and different than “free time” as it has a goal – to refine the things you wish to improve.

Benefits of a weekly schedule:

improved Time Management and Focus.
Reduced Stress and Better Organization.
More Realistic Goals and Priorities.
Complex Tasks Become Manageable.

In an era where everything is online, I made a printable guideline to building a weekly homemaking schedule to help you get started. check it out here

In conclusion, homemaking could be so beautiful and special, to help with the overwhelming aspect of it I highly suggest a weekly schedule to help be on top of your game.

and be sure to not forget yourself within all the chores and responsabilities.

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Stay At Home Wife (NO KIDS) – Daily Routine HOW TO

A stay-at-home wife embodies several roles: she is a homesteader, a dedicated homemaker, and a person whose heart resides within the home. In this discussion, we’ll explore a typical daily routine for such a wife, emphasizing key priorities, maintaining a homesteading mindset, and achieving a harmonious balance between modern conveniences and a connection with nature.

Whether residing in a bustling city or tranquil countryside, choosing to be a child-free homesteader is an aspiration for many. while parenting is often a central goal in homesteading discussions, our focus here is on a situation where a wife embraces homes setting without being also a mom. This choice can be temporary or lifelong, but it’s essential to recognize that homesteading without children is a valid option.

Now, consider this: blending the modern lifestyle – where the choice of having children is deliberate – with a simplicity of rural living evokes warmth and tranquility.

Being a stay-at-home wife without kids doesn’t preclude education. some find fulfilment and teaching other’s children, or even imparting knowledge to animals. this unique path leads to fulfilment joy and triumph across all aspects of life.

The role of a stay-at-home wife without kids: balancing tradition and modernity

Defining a stay-at-home wife without children involves embracing the essence of homesteading – a purposeful, hand-on lifestyle that melds timeless practices with elements of modern living. Here what it entails:

Homesteading Heart: the homesteader builds a genuine home – a place where meals are prepared, tables are set and every corner reflects your personal touch. A homesteader prioritizes the essentials: shelter, sustenance and a nurturing environment.
Healthy Choices: the homesteader opts for health over convenience. This might mean skipping the smartphone in favor of a basic cell phone (sometimes humorously called a “dumb phone”). Car usage is minimized, and appreciated the slower pace of life.
Personalized Decisions: each homesteader shapes their journey uniquely. What it means to be a stay-at-home wife varies – whether it’s tending a garden, crafting, or preserving food and traditions. The path is as diverse as the individuals themselves.

Should I work I shouldn’t I work while being a stay home wife?

The answer isn’t one-size-fits-all. Some stay-at-home wives immerse themselves fully in homemaking. Leaving little room for external work. They’re hands-on, managing household affairs with unwavering dedication. Others, influences by the modern world, choose to balance home life with employment. Some work remotely, finding confidence in their daily tasks.

and here’s a twist: community engagement. Many wives without children actively participate in their communities. They contribute without monetary gain – whether through volunteering, organizing events or supporting local causes. Their impact is immeasurable and appreciated by all.

Remember, being a homesteader isn’t just about physical labor: it’s a mindset – a deliberate choice to weave tradition and innovation into the fabric of daily life.

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The stay-at-home wife mindset

The stay-at-home wife mindset is a blend of practicality, simplicity and self awareness. Whether you reside in a bustling city or the serene countryside.

Benefits of being a stay at home wife

1.improved mental health

2.cost savings

3.fulfilment in life

4.reduce stress five

5.self sufficient

6.healthier relationship with surroundings

The homemaker’s mindset : nurturing simplicity

Being a stay-at-home wife isn’t merely about physical location: it’s a state of mind. Her’s what to embrace

Homemaking Wisdom: channel the homemaker mindset, and art passed through generation. It’s not about chores, it’s about creating a haven – a place where warmth and purpose intersect.

2. Amidst chaos and calm: chaos surrounds us – fast paced lives, Digital noise, and endless demands. but you should remain anchored. amidst the whirlwind, seek stillness – a touchstone for your identity.

3. Urban or Rural: whether you’re in a bustling city or the quiet countryside, carry the essence the home. The hum of traffic or the rustle of leaves it – doesn’t sway your core.

4. Self-Reflection: sip you tea or drink your coffee, who are you beyond rules and routine? introspection keep you grounded.

5. Family, regardless of size: your family whether a duo, or a bustling household, is your own canvas. infuse it with love, intention, and the spirit of homemaking. and remember the same mindset transcends wall it’s about weaving purpose into every thread of life.

Finding Balance between tradition and modernity:

Finding balance between tradition and modernity is a delicate dance one that our childfree homesteader navigate with Grace let’s export explore strategy cheese for harmonizing these these manly opposing forces

It was never about discarding heritage; it’s about molding future heritage while respecting cultural roots. Thrive at this intersection, honoring the past while embracing the future.

A daily routine of a stay-at-home wife without kids

Imagine waking up to the soft glow of dawn, the world stull hushed in slumber. For me, this early rise is my canvas – a day waiting to be painted with purpose.

Extremely Early Morning (4:30 am):

The alarm buzzes, and I slip into workout gear. The quiet house is a witness to my dedication as a leave for my morning group exercise.
By 7 am I’m back home, energized and ready to tackle the day.

Breakfast and Sunlight (7:00 am):

Breakfast is a must – a nourishing simple egg-based breakfast and sweet tea to start the day.
Air out the house, open the windows inviting sunlight to dance across the room. The house awakens.

The Book Nook (8:00 am) :

An hour of reading – my escape into other worlds. Fiction, history or self-improvement.
The clocked nudges me forward

Domestic Choreography (9:00 am):

Housework awaits. Today its laundry – sorting, washing, folding. The floors, too, crave attention.

Midday Work (12:00 pm):

The laptop opens – a portal to my online endeavors. My blog – my passion project.
Work from home hours stretch until 9 pm as I juggle writing emails, reading, answering phone calls, organizing excel sheets and virtual meetings.

Lunch and Dinner interludes (1:30 pm):

Amid work, I pause to nourish myself and my husband. A simple lunch protein heavy, today was left over chicken with Asian noodles and sauce.
Evening brings dinner preparation – as I still work I opt for a dish with a few minutes of prep and a longer cooking time, today was hard boiled eggs and vegetables.

Evening Respite (9:00 pm):

Work winds down, I sink into the couch. A cup of tea soothes before I get ready to finish the day.

Early Slumber (9:30)

The day symphony fades, I slip into bed, grateful for the quietude. Tomorrow awaits – a fresh canvas.

Alternate days:

Instead of early workout, I work in the garden, plant and clean the vegetables. Learning my way of working the land.
Somedays Instead of laundry and cleaning I preserve and make meals for the week. As we are two in the home making big batches last for longer.

Finding Balance between work and leisure

Structured work hours:

I allocate specific hours for work – whether it’s managing my blog, my corporate job or online ventures.
Boundaries are essential : work stays within those designated hours

Purposeful breaks:

During work, I pause for nourishing meals, lunchtime become a mini oasis and a chance to recharge.
These breaks prevent burnout and maintain focus.

Garden Interludes:

On some days I work in the garden. Soil under the nails, sun in the face – ti’s therapeutic.
Gardening isn’t just a chore : it’s my sanctuary.

Reading Hour:

Post breakfast I immerse myself in books, fiction, non-fiction or educational it’s my mental escape. Reading fuels creativity and broadens horizons.

Evening wind-down:

As work house wind down I ease into relaxation. Maybe a cup of herbal tea or a stroll outdoors. This transition from work to leisure is deliberate.

Early sleep:

Some days I retire early (depending on my morning alarm). Sleep is my reset button. Tomorrow’s tasks can wait : rest is non-negotiable.

Balance isn’t static – it’s a dance. I adjust my steps as needed, ensuring work and leisure harmonize.

Challenges as a child-free homemaker:

Social expectations – society often assumes that a homestead life revolves around family raising children teaching them skills and passing down traditions being a homesteader without kids may feel pressured to confirm this norm and explain her choice to neighbors, friends, and even family members

Labour intensity – homesteading demands physical work tending to crops caring for animals and maintaining the property without children to share the load she shoulders these responsibilities alone the daily grind can be exhausting especially during planting and harvest season

Isolation living in rural areas can be somewhat isolating even more so without children without events centred around kids means opportunities for social interactions and it is important to seek connection with like-minded adults

Aging and succession– homesteading is a long-term commitment as ages a homemaker must plan for the future without children there is a question on who will hurt the land there are always alternative arrangements mentoring homesteaders forming corporative communities or preserving legacy through conservation efforts

Remember, a child-free homesteading journey isn’t just about chores, it’s about intentionality, creativity, and savoring life’s simple pleasures.

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